Friday, December 12, 2008

I'vE FoUnD a tRueLy IdiOT

Huh!! some sort of wasting my time when we happen to meet someone which really-really bluff of the day. Some how i kept talking to myself that calm down it is just a learning lesson to your own life. YOU will LEARN something from these, and most of all have fun with life....you go gurl i know u can make it!!!......... I still kept wondering, (even when my head said stop it gurl!!!) I wondering how a married guy had other relationship and how a wife tackle the problem when she already knew that his husband has other women apart of their marriage, she take no action/do nothing. Huh, lovely couple, they ARE meant to each other......hahaha so funny.......

I think in ISLAM itself has a limit to each tolerant or patience level in our life and other people life. Thats why we have sin(dosa) and we have a reward(pahala) for every action that we have taken, but when a muslim didn't know how to segregate his action, huh why you still concidered yourself as a muslim. Why you still commit a prayer if your bodied still acting an inmoral attitude. DuuuHHHH..... really no answer for my question!!!! hhmmmmm........

Maybe (MY THEORY).... just maybe that person has been too much being controlled by his/her parents soo they have uncertainty in life a behavior that he/she concealed throughout their maturity and ingrained as a revenge taken in a way to punish the person whom had controlled their life. Yup!! Being a MELAYU the tradition taugh us to said nothing to what our parents do and obeyed thier command (points there....uh..huh). So each individual will had an inner thought throughout their growing life, that they affraid to let it free...some will take in positive way while others in negative way.........hhmmm

In my first semester in Dr. Mano class we discuss about Human Psychology and Human attitude, off coz from the famous Alice H. Eagly and Shelly Chaiken. Once that still kept in my head is a human will response to certain stimuli(situation) and that person will response the psychology tendency (keinginan untuk bertindak mengikut keupayaan pemikiran individu tersebut) which well influence by thier cognitive responses (knowledge/thoughts) and affective responses (feeling/emotion) and form a behavioral response which is well known as the action.

HAHAHA.....too much watching TV(criminal minds).

ME.......well to settle it out, you have to have faith in yourself and most important is dignity inside you, from this you will built the person that YOU want to be inside YOU. Have faith have dignity. Human will always reacted like a HUMAN, all you need to remembered is they are human you are human, they make a MISTAKE and sure you`ll do too. So fare and square relationship between you and other people. That's what i kept into my head, and became who i am today.

HUH.... i'm felt soo happy with all my findings, its time for me to start my work..... kihkihkih semalam adalah hari cuti untuk seluruh selangor, maka kami2 yang banyak kerjer nih dah mati kutu sebab ramai giler staff yang cuti panjang. AKU...hehe nasib baik Shah ada, after going to maulan having a breakfast ngan chadoks, nisak and exit. I datang kerjer sensorg memang takder org accept pakcik indon yang ngah wat renovate kat lab baru. Fine, kete shah ader kat parking, tapi dia entah hilang kemana. Dah la aku ni penakut sikit.Nasib baik ijan SMS cakap nak dtg wat keje then Exit pun SMS nak dtg teman.....pwweeeehh. LEGA.... after settle the work at 12.30pm ijan ajak rush ge Sg. besi, exit pun nak follow. nak ge cari pos office pastu ketiga2 dara pingitan ni dah kelaparan, eehhhppppmm makan kat sg. besi ker? then wa suggest, alang2 dah datng cni baik ge Endah Parade BKT Jalil jer, makan kat cna siap leh KAROX lagi. Tapi nak dijadikan cerita, tempat karox penuh free kul 3.30...humangaih, berakar bontot nak menunggu. jeng jeng jeng...jalan punya jalan.... ktrg decide ge bowling main 2 frame murah gler RM7.50 satu kepala(tunjuk kad pelajar). game first kalah 1 point jer ngan ijan, second game wa menang. kuikui. hui bleh tahan gak aku main bowling. tapi pastu wa sakit sebelah bontot, sebab dah lama tak streching tetiba angkat benda berat. hehe.......... chow!!

Monday, December 1, 2008

The Meaning of LOVE

I`m a little bit query bout LOVE, when i read my Friendster, Amin post a BULETIN as below, read and judge it by yourself, and see my judgemeent, hehehe:-

Every girl dreams that one day she will find a guy that does these things for her. even the smallest action can have the BIGGEST impact in someones life.
> > • give her one of your t-shirts to sleep in.
> > • leave her cute text notes.
> > • kiss her in front of your friends.
> > • tell her she looks beautiful.
> > • look into her eyes when you talk to her.
> > • let her mess with your hair.
> > • touch her hair.
> > • just walk around with her.
> > • FORGIVE her for her MISTAKES.
> > • look at her like she's the only girl you see.
> > • tickle her even when she says stop.
> > • hold her hand when you're around your friends.
> > • be the one to take her hand, don't make her reach for you
> > • be the one to call her, don't make her always call you
> > • when she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her.
> > • let her fall asleep in your arms.
> > • get her mad, then kiss her.
> > • tease her and let her tease you back.
> > • stay up all night with her when she's sick.
> > • watch her favorite movie with her.
> > • kiss her forehead.
> > • give her the world.
> > • write her letters.
> > • let her wear your clothes.
> > • when she's sad, hang out with her.
> > • let her know she's important.
> > • let her take all the photos she wants of you.
> > • kiss her in the pouring rain.
> > • when you fall in love with her, tell her.
> > • and when you tell her, love her like you've never loved someone before.

Nice and cool huh!! So dramatic, romantic, bombastic and most of all PLASTIC....... Yo! guys, we still can stand if you guys didn't list down all those activities above that you can find it in movie or film. All that we need is YOU GUYs to be loyal to us. To be honest, to be humble and again LOYAL. No fishy around, no stupid scandalous thing......hallo u pikir you tu artis ker. Wajah tu handsome sikit dari longkang. Huh!!! Just treat us like a human, what make a diffrence is we are WOMEN.

Those words a romantic, but how long it will last, maybe just a years or two of your marriage. After that man will reacted just like they are single again ...........so unmature. THis kind of guy you wanna take as a husband.......woooo hooooo. Duuhhhh!! Think twice.

My idea is way .... too pesimistic. Well, at least i`d be honest.